Although being a small creature I thought of writing such big things, for this is where I find the freedom to express. Here I would like to write about something which I totally belive in, its "
my" perspective towards situations in life and perception about the same
. One could treat this as just another blog or find a true picture if this relates to oneself. This is about two basic and opposite entities - success vs failure. There's actually a very small gap b/w success and failure. I think if failure dejects then success is fearsome. Let us sneak into this gap and think about the difference between these two entities. Failure could be deferred success for some people. But, what is success????
Again I mention its just what I feel that I write over here. Success to me is nothing but......Ok, before that lets get into more relevant terms and create definitions for these.
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Competition" - This is the most essential thing in relevance to sustaining success.
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Talent" - God gifted attribute as an attachment for lifetime.
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Luck" - If this is good then everything falls into place.
"Hardwork" - Just one word - got no meaning.
Usually it is conveyed to people that he succeeded bcoz of his talent. What I ask, if he is not talented then is he not entitled to the same for his lifetime? And then it is said that he should work hard to achieve that competency level. According to the above definitions by me this is not possible. I take myself to my childhood and consider me to be a beggar child beeseeching for alms then would have I been able to be in a position I am now. I mean what amount of hard work I needed to put in and what was the probability to get through everything.
Some one said: "Khudi ko kar buland itna ki khuda bande se khud pooche bata teri raza kya hai".
Buland?? - bull s***. The person who wrote this might have been living in a free world (without any competition). There is no such bulandi nor any time to achieve it. Even God may have handed over the success pie to people for themselves to decide - who will get how much share of it. If luck is hard on you it will beat you even harder.
After having said all these I should be a little idealistic and mention one more term and define it:
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Attitude" - This is the one and only one thing that is in relevance to achieving a lifetime success in true sense.
One with a proper attitude can correct those definitions above:
"Competition" - A must, needed for improvisation. Taken with true grace. Its not about preventing others to succeed but about raising ones own level.
"Talent" - Should be taken as an asset.
"Luck" - All about experimenting to explore your true talent.
"Hard Work" - The only key to success.
No one deserves anything from birth, its all about ones fate. How economist think of globalisation for his own benefit, everyone should come out of shell and provide helping hands to needy for the betterment of the society.
"Success to me is nothing but carrying on goodwill to an extent to satisfy you having accomplished something in life."